In the past I've done a few posts about the fact that my wife and I have been looking for a home to buy in the Tucson Foothills-we sold ours a few months ago and have been living in a rental. And I'm a Realtor who specializes in Tucson Foothills homes, so I'm our agent for our home search.
Yesterday we went to look at a home that had just come on the market, a brand new listing. And from the minute we walked in, we knew. It had that certain something, for us it was special. And although it lacked some practical features that all along we've said were essential, with this house, not only were we willing to give up those essentials, we almost didn't realize they were missing. This was the one.
But I was a little concerned because this home was priced high based on $/SqFt. There are larger, more expensive homes in the area, but this one was quite a bit higher than the highest sale price in the area, based on $/SqFt. And even though this home was special, in this slower market, I thought that just didn't make sense. I got really hung up on that.
But we figured this home would probably sell quickly anyway, so we rushed home to write an offer. When I called the listing agent to let him know that, he told me that another agent had shown the house and that this other agent was also going to write an offer. This should have cleared our heads, but instead it raised the emotional level a notch or two.
Just our luck. Brand new listing, priced high in a slow market - two showings and two offers in less than 24 hours.
I wrote a good offer, but it was about 3% under list price. It wasn't that I was trying to save money, I just got wrapped up in thinking that I wasn't going to write a full-price offer in this market, and that I'd be foolish if I did. I lost sight of what was really important, that we wanted to buy this house, and that it was special, and that another offer was coming in. I'd have gladly paid full price, the house was worth it to us, but I couldn't see the forest for the trees, I got stuck in the fine print, and wasn't looking at the big picture.
The other agent wrote a full-price offer. They got the house, and we didn't.
Of course in hindsight I wish I could do that day over.
I hate to admit this, but I'm convinced that I would have done better if we'd had a good agent representing us. Someone who was impartial and not as emotionally involved as we were. Yes I'm an agent, but in this situation I was the buyer, and along with my wife we were dealing with the tangled web of emotions that most home buyers deal with.
The kind of emotions that can effect your thinking and your ability to make good decisions.
A good agent would have peeled back the layers and helped us to see what was important, they would have put things in perspective, and then guided us to do what we needed to do to get the deal done, and get the house.