Tomorrow is moving day for me and my wife. Today (finally) we closed on our new house. The house is new to us, but it's not new, it's a burnt adobe built in 1971 in the central Foothills area of Tucson. And I say finally because we've been between homes for seven months now. We sold our last house back in May, and it's taken us this long to find one that we really wanted to buy. That seems incredible, almost 7 months to find a home, and we looked at everything that came along that was even remotely possible.
It was a very frustrating experience, looking & looking but not finding - until now, but it was worth the wait, this house is us.
Buying or selling a home for yourself is a good thing for a real estate agent to experience every once in a while, it helps you really understand what your clients go thru, dealing with the same issues, deadlines and emotions, and consequences that they do. The last time I bought a home was six years ago, and I forgot what it's really like. This experience reminded me how much more there is to it when you're the actual buyer, and I know that it will make me more sensitive to all those less tangible issues that my clients deal with.
Someone should devise a class that deals with these issues, a class that puts you in touch with the process, the thinking, the emotion of buying and selling a home from the point of view of buyers and sellers. Kind of a psychology 101 of understanding buyers and sellers. It would be a terrific continuing education class that would help agents be more sensitive, more understanding and therefore more helpful to their clients.
There are lots of classes about how to make a sale, or capture leads, convert leads, and answer and overcome objections, but nothing about understanding what's really going on below the surface when your clients buy or sell a home.